I'll preface this post my reminding both you, dear reader, and myself that I'm operating on a 4th grade level when it comes to dating. When I come across someone I like...it's fucking ON. Text messages become more sincere yet careful not to be obsessive. With age I'm become more patient.
Having said that, that weird date I had weeks ago, I gave that another shot, 3 to be exact, which concluded this morning in a stupid he/said/he/said "YOU LEAD ME ON" type thing. And I'm not one to assign blame, but in this case I believe it's due.
When someone strings you along for a 2 weeks with promises of "Oh, I'll hit you up next week" but never does, and when I take the next step to remind said person of such statements, only to be called out...for no reason? I'm sorry, but that's MOTHERFUCKIN' BS!
Maybe I really don't deserve better, and maybe I'm fucking retarded, but in this particular case, I feel no qualms about telling this guy to go to hell (I'll be there anyways), but this guy lead me on for almost a month! And apparently me calling him out on it makes ME an asshole?
I'm sorry...but that is a particular kind of OH NO YOU DIDN'T. I just get pissed off when someone presents themselves in such a way...that defies the typical crap usually dealt with/expected in the Gay Scene...and then adheres to such a stereotype.
Maybe I shouldn't be surprised or pissed off at 4AM, but I am . And I fucking deserve MUCH BETTER, whether anyone agrees or not [FUCK OFF if you disagree, but make your case in the comments anyways]. :)?