Thursday, April 28, 2011


Remember that waiter I briefly dated last fall/winter? Things ended badly, but we talked it out, and made it work since he still works next to where I do and it's just awkward...AGAIN. I though we were on the same page in terms of just being "friends", but he crossed the line last night, or rather tried mightily to.

For one thing, he was drunk as shit, so I won't take it as a compliment when he tells me I look "really cute". He still has feelings for me, and wanted to talk about it. That's fair, but...inviting me back to his place to spend the night, shit, I don't fucking think so. Or him inviting himself over to MY place. UGH.

I suggested a mutual place, namely a 4am bar so we can discuss this situation, but I didn't and don't want to put myself in a situation where more than talking can occur. Not helping matters is that he looked really cute last night. It was tempting, for sure, and I thought back to why and how I gave him chance to begin with.

Sorry if I sound harsh, or worse, arrogant, but I don't think work place relationships are a good idea. I realize the service industry is rife with such situations (booze + late nights = fucking, right?) but that doesn't mean I need to submit to this guy's advances. I'm under enough stress as it is.


I went to karaoke tonight and all I got was this dude's phone number said...

....I think you did the right thing.

As a sexually frustrated individual, I am not so sure I would have done the same.

But I like to think I would.


Mind Of Mine said...

Meh, just get fucking and get gone

JUSTIN said...

Honestly, it wasn't easy to say no. But had I not, I would have regretted it. I need me a good man!

PS - Props on getting those digits, girl. Much love.

Patrick said...

Impressive will power Justin. I probably wouldn't have been as "successful". It sounds like you're making healthy decisions which, I presume, ultimately will help with the drinking as well.

On another note, if you haven't checked out MMJ's Circuital yet I recommend you visit their website ASAP. It's fucking bad ass.

Anonymous said...

Well, you can take the boy out of the slut, but you certainly can't take the slut out of the boy. Oh, wait... you are a top, right? Okay...flip-flop that statement. It still works! :-0

Dean Grey said...


I'm actually surprised by your decision.

I didn't think you had it in you!


S said...

I was going to make a fucking joke, but someone already beat me (off).

JUSTIN said...

Read my next post...I held out for as long as I could.