Monday, January 15, 2007

HELLO

So...here's my first blog posting. Actually, it's my second but I deleted the first one since I didn't think it was very good, so here's version 2.o. First, a little about me: I'm 27 and just came out a little over a year ago. Many of friends have asked me why I waited so long, and the simple answer to that question is, I'm not really sure. I suppose it took me awhile to accept myself for who I am and to be comfortable the life of a gay man, but day by day I grow more and more into myself and I explore this whole other side of me. I've tried explaining to a few people how I feel like I;m going through a sort of second adolescence in that things are new, a little awkward at times but overall very exciting. Some people may recall hitting their first crush or their first kiss as being thrilling and a little terrifying. Luckily, I seem to be past that stage now but things are still pretty new. I've meet a few guys and went on a few dates. Tried the whole gay.com thing but that's not really my thing since I'm not looking for One Nighters, (although a few probably wouldn't hurt). Most people tell me they were always perplexed by my sexuality as I generally avoided dating women preferring the random hook up with a guy. And although I don't "give of a gay vibe" as a friend recently told me I'm definitely into guys, although I think I'm still formulating exactly what it is I;m looking for (does anyone really know?). Over the next few weeks as I ramp up this blog I'll acquaint myself further with those of you out there in cyberworld. I think it'll be a fun ride...thanks for reading.

1 comment:

TNC said...

A "second adolescence". I like that.

Happy 2009.